The inability of some lawyers to meaningfully connect with their clients is hardly surprising. The long hours, stressful situations and ensuring that they are keeping up with the latest issues/updates to the law can result in clients being overlooked and feeling unloved. Soft Skills such as an ability to communicate and connect with clients may be lacking, but with a bit of extra care, can result in long term stickiness for clients looking for a lawyer. Here are 4 ways law firms can build relationships:
For any leader or manager seeking success, awareness of business goals is crucial. Lawyers need to ensure that they command the trusted adviser role. They should be transitioning from providing a functional service to becoming a vital resource for their clients. Lawyers need to ask more than just the legal matter at hand as this will help connect you with your clients and build out a relationship that may either lead to additional work or referrals.
It is important to capture these additional conversations in a central repository, allowing to check in on more personal aspects of the relationship such as a child’s sporting match, ensuring that a loved one is being looked after, or even checking in on a birthday.
Be willing to tell a story to help communicate something that could be complex. By using simple analogies or stories from your own personal experience this will allow the client to connect and better understand a potentially complex legal situation.
A deeper connection can occur if you use analogies or stories from information the client has given to you about themselves. If they like basketball then a basketball analogy will go much further then a football analogy.
Lawyers might be fearful of asking too many questions in case their question is reflected back to them and they do not know the answer on the spot. They might hold the expectation that since the client is paying for their expertise and their time, then they must have the right answer for them right there. A common concern is that this could be embarrassing for the lawyer, and may make them look incompetent in front of their client.
Open-ended questions are a good way to engage with clients without the need to give poor legal advice. Open-ended questions such as: What else? If you did know, what would it be? And how do you feel about the situation?
Additionally, asking clients why they are in business, finding out their strategic goals, and checking what their future holds allows you to better understand your client and their needs. You will then be able to apply the details into the situation when needed
By asking more questions lawyers will be able to get a better picture of their client and the situation, as well as, ultimately, deliver greater value.
Look to “the five Ps” to provide structure:
These strategies can go a long way to build a connection with your clients helping to assist in return business, effectively helping to future-proof your firm.